This is nothing to be shy about. Many men experience premature ejaculation at some point, and it's especially common in younger men. Talking to a doctor about it is often the first step to feeling reassured, and to getting it sorted.
What is premature ejaculation?
Premature ejaculation is when you regularly reach climax sooner than you or your partner would like, with little control over the timing. There's no single "correct" time, the concern is loss of control. If it happens occasionally, that's not a worry. If it happens often and affects you or your relationship, it's worth addressing, and it usually can be.
Common signs
- Ejaculation happens sooner than you'd like, with minimal stimulation
- Little sense of control over timing
- Frustration, worry or avoidance of intimacy as a result
What causes it?
Premature ejaculation can be lifelong (present from the first sexual experiences) or acquired later after a period of normal function. It's most often linked to psychological factors, though physical ones can play a part too.
Psychological factors
- Performance anxiety
- Stress & nervousness
- Relationship concerns
- Early sexual experiences
Physical / other factors
- Hormonal imbalance
- Erectile difficulties
- Alcohol or recreational drug use
- Certain medical conditions
How MNAS Clinic can help
Dr. Khare will listen without judgment, gently explore the likely causes, and explain your options in plain language. As both a sexologist and psychiatrist, she can address the physical and the emotional side together, and build a personalised, evidence-based plan with follow-up.
Reassuring truth: most men with premature ejaculation can be helped, which also helps confidence and intimate relationships.
Frequently asked questions
This page is for general awareness and does not replace a personal medical consultation.